Obsessed

Ever have a fling with a guy friend and then have him harass and stalk you for 8 months?

Let me tell you about this little shitstain. I met him through mutual friends and was warned about him from the beginning. Considering I never had any interest in the kid, I stayed far enough away from him for quite a long time. I was always friendly and we even ended up getting pretty close over Skype talking every day for hours at a time while he was visiting family in England. Things were cool between us but never got very far, I didn’t want to be anything more with him than friends.

Fast forward a good year, maybe year and a half. We were still friends, talking quite often although not quite as close as we had been in the past. It was cool though, we would hang out and go for beers with other people and whatever. We always seemed to have a good time together, so I never thought anything more of it. Then one night, both drunk and stumbling back from the bar after a wicked night of dancing, he kissed me in the street… Just like that.

The next two weeks were a lot of visiting, hanging out and then the inevitable happened. I mean come on, I’m only human. We had history, we were friends, we seemed to have chemistry. And even though my logical brain was screaming at me to not be stupid, I ended up being stupid.

It. Was. Awful.

No, it was BEYOND awful. So awful, in fact, that I left his apartment and wouldn’t talk to him or date him after that. I ignored his calls and messages on Facebook, and basically deleted him out of my life.

A couple days later, I’m hanging out at my girl’s place and I get this text at 1am from this kid saying how he has all these symptoms and he thinks I gave him the Clap. Whoa there, buddy. I know exactly where I’ve been. I am *always* safe, and checked. I, of course, was freaked out and mildly insulted, but if that’s the case so be it. I mean, shit happens right? It can happen to anyone unless you’re fucking Mother Theresa or something. Anyway, so I tell him to keep me informed, and make plans to go get checked out.

Well everything checked out fine but GET THIS: This little vermin went around to all of our mutual friends saying how I gave him the Clap and how I was dirty and a skank, basically just talking a lot of smack. So not only is this kid making me feel shitty and freaking me out, texting me DAILY in the wee hours of the morning absolutely shitfaced yelling and badgering me because we can’t be “friends” anymore, he’s now going around to my friends and making me look bad.

This is when I start to lose my shit a little bit. 3 months later, he texts me out of nowhere saying he’s so sorry, his symptoms were because of a ruptured testicle and never had anything to do with me, and he was wrong. Okay, that’s cool. I can respect someone who can man up and say sorry. So at this point I accept his apology, but I’m still fucking sour at the fact that he shat all over my feelings and then talked a lot of bullshit to all of our friends behind my back. One good thing doesn’t excuse a handful of shitty things. The New Years party this year was very interesting for me to sit through with all the snide remarks and underhanded jokes between certain people.

EVER SINCE THE SUMMER he has texted me randomly, harassing me asking if I will suck his cock or sends me rude messages on Facebook saying “Come give me a handjob”, “Would you fuck my buddy for x amount of dollars” just really rude, vulgar shit. Like… really? 8 MONTHS LATER and you still can’t let it go? Seriously kid?

The funny thing is, the only thing I ever did to this guy was reject him, and now I have to deal with all this bullshit. All I ever did was reject him, and I have to deal with being humiliated in front of my friends, being gossiped about, being freaked out, harassed and badgered. Like… what the fuck. Can’t you just take it like a man and leave me alone…?

WHY YOU SO OBSESSED WITH ME??? Don’t you have shit to do…?

GOD DAMN.